Threesome: Things to Know Before You Try It

Threesome is one of the most common types of group sex. The girls in Sex Island should know because they are always open to the idea of it. In fact, if you're interested, you can jump in and join them. *winks*

For some, it could be just a one-time experience, and for others, it’s a phase in their life. Whatever it is, you should know that wanting to do threesome is totally normal. Group sex does not make you a pervert or addicted to sex. If you are in a relationship and you both decide to have a third, you should know that there are a lot of things to consider. First things’ first, it’s going to be challenging. To find a guest star in your sex life who can fulfill both your sexual fantasies and not ruin the relationship that you already have will be quite a challenge.

Here are some things you should know before doing a threesome.

If you’re having problems with your partner, you should talk it out like adults. Maybe try something new to renew your attraction towards each other. Find something playful to do to make your sex life hotter. Maybe go on a vacation or sexcapade, all work, and other things aside. Or perhaps, what you need is a romantic dinner for just the two of you as you reminisce about the good memories you’ve shared. Letting someone in does not fix the problem. More often than not, it causes more issues.

A relationship should be two-way. When you feel like diving into a threesome, you should consult your partner about it first. It would be best if you repeatedly discussed it until you’re both sure that you are okay with having someone else do your partner, as you, well, watch them. Your relationship should be on solid ground, both sexually and communication-wise. Be so clear about your expectations and boundaries. If you feel like it’s necessary to set some rules, do it. Rules like who gets to touch who and what, how do you know when to stop, and the like are important. If you haven’t discussed these things, including your safe word, you should.

Admit it, even sex with your own partner can be awkward sometimes. How much more if you decide to let a third join you. Sex is messy and awkward. Expect that threesome is going to be a challenge. Don’t expect that it’s going to be a smooth ride, but don’t worry about it being a mess, either. You should just go with the flow.

And at some point, one of you might feel left out. If you’re not okay with the thought of that being you, you might not yet be ready for this kind of adventure.

If you and your partner have been together for quite some time and are comfortable with each other, you might not see the need to practice safe sex. But when you decide to dive into a threesome, or even more, the use of contraceptives should be non-negotiable. It’s a necessity to use contraceptives when having sex with multiple partners. This also goes for girls if sex toys are part of the play. Your guest star is likely to be having sex with other partners, as well. It’s better to be safe than sorry later.

Double your effort in preparing your body for a three-way adventure. Take a shower. Do more than just shave your legs. Find a way to make yourself tastier. And consider doing a few warm-up exercises because you are in for an exhausting treat.

As you get your "unicorn" join you and your partner in bed (yes, "unicorn" is another term for guest or a third), you should know that jealousy might and will come in, especially if you're feeling left out. Or it might not be you, but it could be your partner who feels jealous as you go down another girl. One of you might instantly feel rage; you didn't know you had. Often times, it looks hot AF. We want that. What we want to avoid is jealousy, so listen to your gut, be sensitive about what they feel, and know when it's time to stop.

You may be all too excited and sure about this threesome thingy, but know that once you get to try it, you might realize you're not really into it. And, that's totally okay. Sometimes the idea of trying new things with your partner might sound fun and might look hot in your head, but some things just don't work. Even if you have previously agreed about the activity, know that you can always back out. Or you can choose not to do it again, ever. That's why having a safe word is necessary to protect your body and your feelings, as well.

Once you decide to have a third, it can happen again and again. And once you get physically connected with others, know that one of you might catch feelings. All three of you could decide to be in a three-way romantic relationship and maintain your steamy adventurous sex life. What's not okay is, your partner might leave you for the third. It's going to wreck you for sure.

To conclude, before you decide to act on it, think through it as many times as you can until you're tired of thinking and talking about it. Be more than 100% sure that you want to get into that world.
 
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